Grandma wars

I really thought this wouldn't be a big problem for me but I guess it has turned out that the grandma's are going to be jealous of the time the other grandma gets. My hubby has made several comments that would lead me to believe that his mom made some comments about how she felt she didn't get enough baby time at our holiday gathering. And how my mom seemed to hog the baby. Now I'm not trying to get in a huge argument about this with anyone but grow up! Are you serious? How old are we anyway? I think I got into a similar argument about friends when I was in the second grade!